Cockroach Theory for Self Development by Google CEO Sunder Pichai

imagesI came across this story that Sunder Pichai, CEO of Google,  told in his speech. I thought it is worth sharing with all of you:

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.

She started screaming out of fear.

With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but …it landed on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.

In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt.

When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior?

If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?

He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it’s my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It’s not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it’s my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:

I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond.

The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.

A beautiful way to understand…………LIFE.

Person who is HAPPY is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life..

He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right..!!

Three Tips For Saving Money On Car Rentals

car-1300629_640I like to drive no matter where I go on vacation. I have driven in Europe, Asia, Middle East and America. To all the arrangement I have to make car rental is yet another thing that I add to my list.

Over years, I have realized is that is no single place that can guarantee you the car type that you want for the price you want. Prices fluctuate so much that you can save hundreds of dollars if you follow the three tips listed in this post.

Here few tips for you

  1. Book in advance and do not go for prepay option – I like the flexibility of cancelling trips or the cars I have booked so I do not prepay, even though prepayment might give a slightly better rate.  Booking in advance does not mean you will have the best rate but since you are not prepaying you can always cancel and rebook if better rates showup
  2. Discount Club and Sites – Try sites like Costco to get better rate – It is not always guaranteed but I have found a lot better rates on Costco then directly booking. Hotwire is another site that I look.  As I am writing this Hotwire just gave a me a better deal than what Costco gave me few days ago ($200 savings). I am sure the prices will even go lower in next day.
  3. Check Frequently – Car rental rates fluctuate every day so keep checking to get a better deal.  Even within a day, you will find deals that have a lot of price difference. So check whenever you get time as you can’t keep track of every price change.

How to Save Money on Virus Protection

I have had McAfee Virus protection for years on my computers.  These virus protection software cover all the updates for one year from the day you buy and then you have to renew your subscription.  Almost all of the virus protection software can store your credit card info and do automatic renewal so that you can keep your software up to date.  I did automatic renewals for years without thinking about it.

Recently my credit card expired and my subscription did not auto renew so I was without protection.  I clicked on auto renew button on the software and saw that they offered a discount, McAfee Total protection was regularly priced at $89.99 but they offered it at $49.99.  Since I did not have my credit card handy, I decided to do it later. After a day I went back and saw that the offer was now for $39.99.  I found this interesting.  Then I thought maybe there are stores that sell the renewal for even a lower price.  So online search landed me at Amazon. Guess what? Amazon had the same software for online activation for $19.99.  It turns out that you do not need renewal, you can uninstall the old version and install a newer one that you buy from Amazon.

So a simple, credit card expiration saved me $30.  If you are in the same situation, head over to Amazon and but the virus protection from there.


6 year old’s journey to financial success update (he is 7 now)

In may of 2015 I wrote about my son who has been learning about money. He had gathered about $824 in his piggy bank, money on his birthday from relatives etc. I took him to bank in May, 2015 and taught him about savings. I also told him that I will help him grow his money, he did not quite understand the concept. My hope his that keeping track of his journey in this blog will help him understand the concept when he learns about interests and dividends in school.

So in May I opened a brokerage account and bought 10 shares of SDY, an S&P dividend ETF.  Why SDY?  Well I thought it is a safe dividend play that can help his money grow over long run.

I bough it for $79 a share.

As you all, who have been investing in market for years, know there is no sure bet in the market.  As it turn out, right after I bought this ETF the market went down.



The bottom for SDY was about $68. So I lost about $90 of his piggy bank in less than a year. Well that was just a loss on the paper since I did not intend to cash it any time soon.  If you think about it, all of those $824 were kind of lost in his piggy bank anyway.

Well now the market is back up and the share closed on Friday (March 18, 2016) at $79.27, just slightly higher than the price I paid. You might say, well at least I am breaking even, right?  Well not so fast. I am actually way ahead. Since the stock continued to pay dividend that I reinvested those dividends, now he has a total of 10.4969 shares with a total value $831.87. Adding the cash balance of $39.54. His piggy bank total now is $871.41.   That is $47.41 higher than the money that was sitting in the piggy bank.  A return of 5.74% in less than a year is not bad.

I will continue to reinvest the dividends and share my update on this blog.  Meanwhile he has some more new money in his actual piggy bank that I plan to use to buy some other stock or ETF. I will post those updates as well.

So how is your kids piggy bank doing? How do you teach your kids about investing/savings?  Would love to learn your story.


The Book That Got Me Started Into Real Estate Investing

The concept of passive income and how to think about your possessions as assets or liabilities is a very powerful one. Anything that produces money without you doing anything (for most part) is an Asset, while something that causes you to spend money is a liability. I learned this concept of assets, liabilities and cash flow from Robert Kiyosaki’s book “Rich Dad Poor Dad: What The Rich Teach Their Kids About Money That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!“.

I am not saying that I completely buy the story in this books but the concepts are powerful.  The whole concept of assets, liabilities and cash flow got me thinking.  Robert is right, you don’t become rich by working for someone. You become rich by owning assets such as Real Estate, business, patents etc.  If you have been thinking about retiring early, creating passive income streams, investing in real estate then I will highly recommend this book.




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How much do you earn?

A love-vs-moneyman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: “Daddy, may I ask you a question?”
DAD: “Yeah sure, what it is?” replied the man.
SON: “Daddy, how much do you make an hour?”
DAD: “That’s none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?” the man said angrily.
SON: “I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?”
DAD: “If you must know, I make $100 an hour.”
SON: “Oh,” the little boy replied, with his head down.
SON: “Daddy, may I please borrow $10?”

The father was furious, “If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room. The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $10 and he really didn’t ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy’s room and opened the door.” Are you asleep, son?” He asked.
“No daddy, I’m awake,” replied the boy. “I’ve been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier” said the man. Here’s the $10 you asked for.”

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. “Oh, thank you daddy!” He yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up notes. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father. “Why do you want more money if you already have some?” the father grumbled.

”Because I didn’t have enough, but now I do,” the little boy replied. “Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.”

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

A reminder to all of us working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.

This is a story but it is really true.  My 6 yr old says the same thing at times. He does not understand why I have to go to office every day. Whenever his school is off her says  daddy don’t go to office, play with me, we don’t need any more money today, you can take the money from my piggy bank if you need it.

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How a little girl encouraged me to live healthy and help her gymnastics team

indexI recently stopped by a Jamba Juice on my way to long weekend in Vancuover. As I was entering the store, I heard a little girl, she called me and asked me if I would like to buy a Jamba Juice card which will give me buy one get one free for $10.00. Then as I turned to talked to her, she explained me how these $10 will help her gymnastics team. I would have given her $10 anyway to support her team but now I got a good deal too. Though I rarely go to Jamba Juice, this gives me an incentive to go to Jamba Juice, drink some healthy smoothies. All in all such a deal was win-win-win for all of us. The girls gymnastic team got the money, I got healthy drinks and Jamba Juice got the business that they would not have got.

In addition, helping these kids boosts their self esteem, encourages them to be better citizens and encourage entrepreneurship.

We need more corporations like Jamba Juice to help the society. I encourage you to stop by and help little kids while helping yourself.

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6 year old’s journey to financial success

I will provide updates on my 6 yrs old journey (little over 6.5 now) to financial success.  He is just starting to learn about money, saving, investing, giving and growing.

Over last 2 years, ever since he got some concept of money I have taken him to a bank where he has deposited money.  Where did the money come from? Primarily three sources for now

1. Coins that I accumulated over years, I gave it to him

2. Money given to him by relatives on some occasions

3. More coins that I remove from my pocket.

So far has has accumulated 824 dollars.

Next step:

  • I just opened a brokerage amount with Merrill Lynch and have transferred money into that account.
  • Will find some quality ETF to put money into it.
  • Meanwhile he will continue to accumulate more coins.

I will update this post over the year and show how money grows.

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Lending Club Update #1

Lastmicrolending-small-loans-make-big-difference-new-jpg-2xjyx0y3eznayd4ghs8lqi month I wrote about starting with Lending Club, a micro lending company.  I started with $500 and have set up automatic investing of $25 every 2 weeks.  Currently I am up to a balance of $577.66 which includes my investment of $575 and $2.66 of the interest, though the “Interest Received” section says it should be $2.81 (I will figure out what the gap is and then write about it in my future post).

I am starting very conservatively currently so that I can get a feel of microlending and then scale to being more aggressive over years.  My first round of investments were mainly in A Grade and B grade borrowers, not I also have 2 C grade investments.

A grade borrowers are those that have a good credit ratings. They pose the lowest risk and hence are charged a lower interest rate.  B grade borrowers are little more risky and it goes on till G grade (that’s the lowest I have seen). Within these grade bands they further divide the borrowers further from 1-5 e.g. A1, A2, A3 etc.

So far all these loans are on time and have resulted in 7.65% return. Not Bad.

I am expecting some hiccups in returns but only time will tell.  Are you into microlending? What has your experience been so far?

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One app that saves me at least $7 each time I fill the gas tank

gas-buddyI drive nice cars, cars that eat lots of gas and most financial advisers will advice against. In general I agree that you should not go overboard and take care of other debts and expenses before you indulge in expensive cars.  My goal is not to save and retire rich by 65, the time when I might not have the energy or passion.  My goal is to keep enjoying life each day while building for early retirement, when I say early I mean in my 50s . So while I like to drive nice car, I also like to save money wherever possible.  So this is where this app come in handy.  The app, I use is GasBuddy.  Search for it in App Store, it is Free. (I don’t like to pay for apps and so far I think I only paid for Whatsapp, that too for work).

Gas Buddy, has saved me as much as 65 cents/gallon. It helps me find the cheapest gas stations near me.  All I have to do is open the app, press a button called “Find Gas Near Me” and sort by price or distance.  It lists all the gas stations with price options for various gas types with their prices.  Sometimes just driving one additional block will save more than 20 cents a gallon.  All these quickly add up.  Savings of 50 cents/gallon are very common. My small car has a tank of 14+ gallons, multiply that by 50 cents and you get a savings of $7.

Have you used any app to save money?  If yes, share them with me.